Adversity Strength
Life challenges us in many ways, even when we are not ready to take on the challenge . One of the things that creates a lot of fear in us is the thought of the many challenges that we may encounter on our path: “How would I react to that? I would die if I ever had to experience something like that!” In reality, however, we are much stronger than we think and we all possess an inner bravery that increases when we are faced with adversity.
Because of this, we can’t live in fear and keep thinking things like ‘what if I lose my job… and what if I lose this person… and what if one of my loved ones gets sick?’
You may not believe it, but after a storm always comes calm. So even when the beginning is very difficult, when we literally have no more tears in our bodies and we have managed to accept that life is not kind to us that day, an inner force comes up that protects us, helps us and helps us grow as people.
There is also a positive side to all the bad things we experience, even if we can’t always see this side.
Maybe you are going through something similar right now and you feel like you can never get over this pain, that you will never be able to overcome this problem or that you will have to live with this bad luck forever, but…
Life is divided into phases, moments that are good and bad, happy and sad. That’s just how this journey works and that’s how we have to learn to understand it. If it’s cloudy for a day, or maybe two or three, trust that at some point the sun will shine again.
Sometimes the sun is a little lazy and your patience is tested, but at other times we are surprised by the amazing light that emerges after a violent storm. Sometimes we can see the light from a distance, very small and eventually it comes closer and closer, until we are completely flooded with light.
Remember that deep down there is a power within you that comes to the surface when you need it most. It really is, even if you don’t believe it, even if you are convinced that you are a coward who has no inner strength at all.
You always carry a light within you that will help you in difficult times, giving you more strength than you have ever had and this power will amaze you more than you might think beforehand.
And when the storm passes – the storm always passes – life will surprise you again with a new love, a new good friend you might never have met in any other way, with a beautiful grandchild or with an unexpected journey. that unleashes everything in you and exposes you to the most beautiful environments.
When you think about something really bad that you’ve been through, remember that you not only survived it, but you put up a good fight. You will feel like someone who longs to be a warrior and finally has the chance to put on his armor and put on his helmet and feel no fear at all, because he knows that he has already faced pain and standing on his own managed to keep and protect himself well. To fight and to conquer, just like the gladiators of ancient Rome, only in this case the muscles were inside you.
It will happen more often in life that something in your soul breaks down. In these cases, however, keep going, fight, don’t let yourself be discouraged.
Hopefully, this article will help you in difficult times overcome the fear of the bad experiences you will have and enjoy the good moments as they happen. Laugh, dance, dream, enjoy what you have in your hands and face life with courage when the moment calls for it.
