If You Don’t Like Something, Change It!

What don’t you like about your life? Maybe it’s something external, like certain friendships, your job, something you don’t think you can change. And that’s true, but you can influence it indirectly.

Suppose you don’t like how a certain person you interact with behaves. The first step is to recognize your dissatisfaction because you may be dealing with a manipulative person or maybe that person just isn’t right for you. In any case, you don’t feel comfortable with it. You can’t change that person, but you can change yourself… Except that doesn’t really help in this case.

What must we do? Change the situation. If you are unhappy with someone, keep your distance! You can’t change someone else, but you can change the circumstances.

Changes frighten us. We have learned to fear change, to accept suffering and to adapt. But how much can we endure in such a situation?

Worrying about trivial things

We have not learned to change things, but to deal with them. We have been concerned since childhood whether we anger or disappoint people. These are worries that have a negative effect on us and are not good for us.

Do you think you worry too much? Have you ever thought that you worry more than others? If so, maybe it’s time to change that situation, because you probably don’t like it.

Not worrying excessively doesn’t mean we’ll never worry, but it means we care less about it than we do now. Many of our worries that bother us are pretty trivial. Do they really deserve all our attention? Others don’t give them their full attention, so neither should you. Start changing today.

It’s unbelievable how much your life can change if you decide to change how you think.  There are many things that we were taught in childhood, considerations that still bother us when we are  adults, because something just doesn’t work.

Let’s go the right way!

The right path is where we feel happy and content with ourselves, where we are in balance. In order to find that, we sometimes have to change.

How can we change things we don’t like, whatever they are? Follow these tips, because they will help you get rid of the fear of change and finally become happy with everything and everyone.

• Those who change find true success. They also fear that their choice will lead to failure. They are afraid of what they don’t know, but they took the risk and came out victorious.
• Use uncertainty to motivate yourself. Often, uncertainty will demotivate you, but remember that the outcome will be even better. Are you really stuck in this state of unhappiness? Change, the best is yet to come.

• Whatever happens, accept it. Whether good or bad, everything changes. Every action has a consequence. But no matter what it is, accept it. It was your choice and you have to be consistent…and so are all the other choices in your life. Be proud of it. It is better to react than to remain passive when faced with circumstances. That means you’re alive.
• Make the changes little by little.  Abrupt changes do not necessarily give positive results. Therefore, changes must be progressive, thoughtful and calm. It’s not good to rush things.
• It is normal to be afraid. It is so normal that you should accept it, but you should not let it control you. You have to be strong enough to overcome this fear, face it and determine what really matters. Will fear outweigh what you really want?

• If you don’t change, change will find you. Even if you don’t want to see it, you’re constantly changing. Your family changes, your friends change, your situation changes and sometimes these changes are out of your control. You don’t choose them yourself. They come and you have to accept them.

Anxiety is normal, but if you don’t like something about your life, or a situation or something you’re going through, change it. This will make you happier. Living in a situation that is not pleasant for you causes your personality to become more negative.

Have you ever had to change in your life? Have you ever found yourself in such a situation? If so, share with us how you’ve felt better: by accepting it or by drastically changing everything?