Our Meeting Was Inevitable

Throughout our lives we meet many people. Some of them teach us things that will be useful to us for the rest of our lives and others teach us nothing, or at least that’s what we think.

We also meet many people who, even at our lowest point, still know how to get to our core, without making an effort. They may not have the same effect on others, but they do on you.

Other people pass through our lives without forming a mutual understanding or friendship with us, but they still leave a mark on the way we understand the world.

I once read that you should try to be the person you would like to meet. This is difficult and often I doubt who I am and where the truth lies, but it is true that the more I reflect inwardly and the more I prove myself, the better I feel in my own skin.

I will not lie, my existence is not influenced by a great sense of spirituality, by great human labor or by a fascination with any part of life. What fascinates me are the people who have passed in my life and who have piqued my interest in the things that seemed boring before I met them.

Because  happiness is not real if it is not shared. But when shared with someone who has nothing to add to our lives, loneliness is calmer and calmer.

For this reason , I define my history based on the magical encounters I’ve had with people, the  ones that warm my heart, make my eyes water nostalgically, and help me find myself.

I have drawn conclusions about every and every little angel that has come into my life. In any case, I hope that our further transformations have led to something positive for both of us and that this beautiful intimacy we have has provided a shared shelter in difficult times.

Because sometimes it’s good to look back, to know what lessons people have taught us  and what we hope for from now on.

There are a few things these people have left for me after transforming my soul. This is what I look for in other people:

• A sense of humor ; it should be as respectful as our friendship or our love.
• Silence is a divine quality, appreciated and shared only when communication becomes so real that you don’t have to talk so much. Sometimes people separate themselves more when they talk endlessly.
• My intimacy is something I give to you. There’s no need to talk about what I don’t even understand about myself or what I’ve never understood about others. I like the intimacy we’ve created together, I’m not interested in what we have separately.

• I don’t care about their past. If they don’t pretend in the present, then I praise their turbulent past, because it has made them who they are today.
• I want to keep my habits and rarities and I want the other person to do the same. Wonderful things happen when both people share their passions.
• It’s not enough for me to know I’m important; they have to show it to me.
• Morals don’t interest me. Values ​​interest me, but only if they relieve suffering and pain. Money doesn’t interest me. Class is, but that is in danger of extinction.
• I’m interested in people who don’t deny the wonderful reaction we had when we met, however long it takes, because what lives in the heart never dies.

So never be sad to see someone leave your life, if they left that kind of impression on you. Take comfort in the knowledge that both of you have been transformed forever.